I dropped a FEW subtle hints knowing i could trust him (and not thinking he would catch it) he paused and asked "did you know that satanists believe in the same things you do?" I paused for a second and said "I know because i am one" the response was a handshake and "REALLY?!?! fucking right on man i have a few satanist friends dude" (he's NOT a satanist he likes Cthulhu ) his only question's about it was how long i was one and why i chose this. We continued as normal he hasn't treated me any different we hang out all the time and he kept it quiet like i asked.
However this person is the only friend ill tell for now. because my other good friend is a BIG i mean HUGE redneck and though he's not religious but he just about check's off all the redneck boxes that's for sure (part of why we're friends) we've been best friends for years i just don't know how he'd react.
Friends aside i told myself family will not know because i am BIG on family i just don't want to risk them thinking differently of me or is this a bad move?
(Sorry if a bit long just had to tell the story how it happened.)