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johnnywatts Chapter Head
johnnywatts Oct 7 '14
As we all know, the Satanism community has always been male dominated. Even the Church of Satan admits that their membership has more men than women.


Why is this? 


Is this because of pressure to show tits on Tinychat? I would imagine that if a new female Satanist shows up and is pressured or coerced into showing tits, it'd be a really good reason for her to leave.


Or is it because of the doctrine? The ultra competitiveness of Satanism appealing more to men than women?


Is there some other reason? Can the women of SIN chime in on their perspective on this matter?


How do we fix this? 


Mind you, not fix it because men are evil, or that all people are inherently equal, but simply because excluding 50% of the population is generally a dumb idea. You're not fully utilizing all the talent and minds you could have.


Let's discuss.

johnnywatts Chapter Head
johnnywatts Oct 7 '14

Quote from luz
Quote from jonnywatts How do we fix this?


Let's discuss the concept and practice of a male alter...



Yes, why not? Let's discuss that.


Please elaborate on what you think a male altar should be, and what that means to women.

Khandnalie Member
Khandnalie Oct 7 '14

Quote from luz
Quote from jonnywatts How do we fix this?


Let's discuss the concept and practice of a male alter...


Bahahah, like the way you think!
johnnywatts Chapter Head
johnnywatts Oct 15 '14
Quote from Dimitri
Quote from jonnywatts As we all know, the Satanism community has always been male dominated. Even the Church of Satan admits that their membership has more men than women. Why is this? 
We touched this briefly in chat a few nights ago. 

I think the reason why the Satanic community is mostly male-dominated has to do with "the nature of the beast". It has something to do with the social stigma it carries. It also has something to do in the way women are "portrayed" in the literature. Take "the compleat witch" for example... while it does speak about female empowerment and the "charms" a women can possess, it also paints the narrow picture of a woman as a "seductress". Taking into account that the traditional view of a Satanic rituals involves a scantily-clad woman laying on an altar isn't helping either... 

Also, a bit of hidden dating advice for some of the young-ones, putting the opposite gender on a pedestal in order to woe them is a turn-off. Which is exactly what happens in a majority of cases when a woman turns up in a Satanically inspired network as this one. The embrace of the own carnality, which is one of the prime virtues of being "a Satanist", makes most people a tat too unapproachable as they speak through their hormones instead of their brains. I know very few women who like to be looked at (and approached) in an obvious and unaltered sexual way... same applies to men by the way... . 

The female population is not excluded from "the Satanic community" (or Satanism tout court). The very nature of the beast is simply unattractive to a majority of the female population. 


I find "the nature of the beast" excuse to be a poor one. Yes, there is no doubt that embracing the carnality in oneself is a prime virtue.


However, also consider the following:


a) Stupidity is a sin. #1 sin of all in fact. It is defined as the lack of intelligence, understanding, reason, wit or sense. Among these, I see that the lack of intelligence and understanding to be particularly relevant to the topic at hand.


Speaking through your hormones, as you say, implies a lack of intelligence. As Satanists, we embrace our carnality, but never at the cost of ourselves. Yes, if you speak from your hormones all the time, you may get off from it from time to time. However, also consider the damage to your own reputation, which is a long term repercussion. An orgasm lasts 30 seconds. A ruined reputation as a literal dick lasts for years.


And then putting women on a pedestal implies a lack of understanding. As you say, it is off-putting. Failing to understand this is stupidity.


b) We Satanists pride ourselves as champions of individuality and personal sovereignty. Being a creep to a woman is a violation of the woman's personal sovereignty. There's a damn good reason why Satanists despise rapists and child molesters. All of them violate individual sovereignty on some level.


Just because we're Satanists, we don't necessarily have to be dicks about it. Defend your own sovereignty, and be an individual. None of these things require you to approach women as you would approach a masturbatory aid. In fact, I'd argue that if you do so, you simply have not devoted enough time to THINKING about your Satanic life.


We're adherents to the Left Hand Path. We're allowed to think about things. So why not use it? Instead of hiding behind Satanism as an excuse for your own stupidity and lack of understanding.

The Forum post is edited by johnnywatts Oct 15 '14
johnnywatts Chapter Head
johnnywatts Oct 15 '14

Quote from luz
Quote from Dimitri The female population is not excluded from "the Satanic community" (or Satanism tout court). The very nature of the beast is simply unattractive to a majority of the female population
It's lovely when a female's perspective on Satanism is taken as 'posturing' and 'bullshit' by a fellow Satanist, and then the same Satanist claims that Satanism isn't attractive to females.



Wat. Did I miss something?

JasinElric
JasinElric Oct 15 '14
The same could be asked as to why soap operas are more appealing to women than men.  Since we're generalizing, why stop there?  Women are driven by emotion, more so than they are by intellectualism .  This is that old "Mother and Father" concept modern society has done away with.  Mother is the shoulder the child cries on, Father is the teacher the son learns from.  Good thing we've trashed that paradigm, look how much better things have gotten, and how much happier both genders have become!
JasinElric
JasinElric Oct 16 '14
Victim mentality is outside the scope of Satanism.  Take your whining elsewhere, social justice warrior.
nith
nith Oct 16 '14
I have asked a couple of times what is with the social justice warrior title used as an insult and gotten very little in return. I would like to know what is with the new name on an old things and if this is some one size fits all bullshit? The anti activist rhetoric reminds me of the old political style insults of “agree with me or you are an idiot”. Is it just a group of dogs with a new bone and can't put it down or do they really believe that one size fits all title?

I could add something called “rhetoric echo based response”. This would be those who hear the catchy phrase or trendy insult and run with it as so many others do but never really dig into it's meaning. From the Urban Dictionary version a social justice warrior is an act mainly kept online.

With the post hoc ergo propter hoc logic base, does this mean a person only has to disprove a single aspect for the insulter's tower of cards to fall? Yes luz can get more than a little fluffy with descriptions and causes but even If I don't agree with her she has some cards on the table.

Anyone who has seen Dimitri about at all has seen him place his cards down on the table loud and proud and with the subtlety of a baseball bat.

JasinElric, other than catch phrases and insults (that also seem to end up as catch phrases), do you have any cards and if so have you ever placed them on the table?
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Anna
Anna Oct 16 '14

Quote from luz FYI: for a modern feminist (i.e. me), the very idea that there is a divide between male and female population is sexist. I tend to believe that if there is a 'divide' it is not due to some inherent differences of the genders but to social and cultural programming that is instilled after birth.


LMAO! Well... let me spell it out to you. There is indeed a divide between both genders. The most basic difference between males and females is that males have dicks and females have pussies, except some peculiar nature freaks. I hope you aren't one of them. ;)

Seriously though, gender equality is bullshit. Males are generally physically stronger than females. They are also more aggressive by nature, which is why they are the majority not only in the army, but also in all occupations that require strong competition, like politicians or managers. They more often than women get to the top and occupy the head positions in a company. It's all biology, our anatomy and hormones that dictate differences between genders. And our biology influences our life whether we want it or not.
nith
nith Oct 16 '14

@Anna, Even though there are genetic base differences between basic males and females I see their application outcomes based on environment and attitude.


Yes males were generally stronger but who meets force with force as a tactic? Also with the aggression idea I would say it depends on the type of aggression. I often joke that guys are more expedient based aggressive (as in direct and basic force), yet females females are often more covert. The thing is that times change and the lines are being blurred as guys start to scratch and pull hair and girls punch and kick to the groin.


I don't generally back feminist or any base movements but individuals are another topic. I really don't care if a person is female, male or their race and so forth when it comes to a particular task. What I do care about is can they do said task and how well.


Yes biology influences a person's life but only if they use the same tactics as everyone else.

The Forum post is edited by nith Oct 16 '14
JasinElric
JasinElric Oct 16 '14

Luz:  

I'm just sick of hearing people bitch about how the hand they were dealt in life is so unfair, they're mistreated by society, blah blah.  Feminism falls right in line with that.  We're all victims of some form of oppression, even people like me, the evil cis-gender, skinny, white male, are oppressed by the far-left.  Should I be joining some extremist far-right movement?  Would that be helpful to humanity in general?


So to correct your guesses:


1. Your life is perfect and no-one oppresses you

No, it isn't.  

Yes, I am, but I don't make it the center of my life or cry "sexist, racist, etc.-ist" when it happens.  

I find rational and practical ways to correct it, without demanding the world bend to my demands.


2. You're so much better than everyone else (being a Satanist and all) that when positioned in an oppressive situation, you buckle up and take it as a champ

Smarter than most, I'd like to think.  Better?  I don't know we'd be able to measure something like that.  I'll just say no.

Buckle? No, refer to 1.


I have no reason to take issue with those who wish to better their own situation.  I do take issue when their solutions involve special treatment from everyone else in the world.   


Nith:  

Catchphrases?  Cards on the table?  

I feel I've been fairly clear and up front about my position on things without parroting other people's arguments.  I will admit, I've been rather short in this thread, my posts were done while at work.  As far as my presence on this site in general, thus far, my cards have always been placed firmly on the table.  Perhaps you've forgotten me, Nith, but I'm no stranger to these forums.  


What makes "Social Justice Warrior" any more of a catchphrase than "Feminist," by the way?  It's primary usage in speech vs text?

Something else is unclear to me, are you saying that by the very nature of putting a title to an idea, it becomes rhetoric?


Nice one, name dropping your buddy, Dimitri.  I find him very intelligent as well, though I don't understand your basis for comparison of us.

rigosantana3
rigosantana3 Oct 16 '14
from what I have observed. women are more likely to go with the "emotional religions" such as wicca and general clusterfuck paganism. Satanism doesn't appeal to their emotions. and remember....women dont think, they feel.
nith
nith Oct 16 '14

Jasin, Yes you were kind of short worded in this thread. More than a couple of threads have short rhetoric based posts (the last three of your posts I have seen).


As for my meaning on the word rhetoric I am using one of the dictionary applications; Persuasive impressive intent yet open to interpretation (also often lacking in meaningful content). Maybe if you went into detail about the victim mentality but I guess you couldn't really as the “take your whining elsewhere” is a conversation ender.


The meaning of a catch phrase is normally a well known or common use short line that becomes a be all and end all of a statement or description. Now if you wrote the same thing yet followed it up with more detail it would be the description that goes with the statement.


My basis for picking luz, Dimitri was not name dropping but I just picked two people who posted around that time.


MatthewJ1
MatthewJ1 Oct 17 '14

This is an interesting one.

 

In LaVey’s Satanism there is a desire to return to so called traditional gender roles as traditional gender roles somehow reflect how males and females relate to each other in a state of nature.

 

LaVey has gone on record, stating that he is a misogynist. He certainly disliked the feminist movement, and the so called de-masculinisation of the male of the 1960’s and 1970’s. He liked soft compliant blondes, they were a natural complement to his dominant masculine 12o’clock (fire) type.

 

I do think LaVey’s has had a great deal of influence on how male/females are regarded in contemporary Satanism.   

 

If you have read ‘The Compleat Witch’ aka ‘The Satanic Witch’ by LaVey you will note that his book is based on the idea that a woman should focus her efforts on using men to get what she wants, since it is the men who are in positions of power.

 

And so, according to this, a woman should be primarily concerned about her appearance, about where she is on the synthesiser clock and who her opposite is on the clock, about determining what fetish fuels her target and tailoring her approach to the satisfaction or the highlighting of that fetish.

 

Everything the witch does is done in order to please a man, in order to control that man, in order to get what she wants. The male is the prime focus and the woman works around that and becomes more or less a non-individual who just deceives. The woman is cast at the very outset as a deceiver.

 

What I would like to see is ‘The Satanic Witch’ re-written from the ground up by a satanic witch. What would a new book like this look like? I don’t know, but whoever pulled it off would have created an entirely new form of Satanism I think. 

JasinElric
JasinElric Oct 17 '14

Quote from Dimitri
Quote from JasinElric 2. You're so much better than everyone else (being a Satanist and all) that when positioned in an oppressive situation, you buckle up and take it as a champ
Just because that particular label is taken up doesn't mean there's an automatic "upgrade" by which people become better. 

Still gotta earn those damned stripes lads..
Those were not my words, they were quoted from luz, but I didn't have time to go back and forth between pages to quote both her and Nith in my post.  That's why my responses were particular to their respective posters.
JasinElric
JasinElric Oct 17 '14

Quote from Nith

Jasin, Yes you were kind of short worded in this thread. More than a couple of threads have short rhetoric based posts (the last three of your posts I have seen).


As for my meaning on the word rhetoric I am using one of the dictionary applications; Persuasive impressive intent yet open to interpretation (also often lacking in meaningful content). Maybe if you went into detail about the victim mentality but I guess you couldn't really as the “take your whining elsewhere” is a conversation ender.


The meaning of a catch phrase is normally a well known or common use short line that becomes a be all and end all of a statement or description. Now if you wrote the same thing yet followed it up with more detail it would be the description that goes with the statement.


My basis for picking luz, Dimitri was not name dropping but I just picked two people who posted around that time.


Yet again, that would be a mistake on my end.  I'll try to refrain from quick posts in the future to go more in depth on my points.
Anna
Anna Oct 17 '14

Quote from Nith I don't generally back feminist or any base movements but individuals are another topic. I really don't care if a person is female, male or their race and so forth when it comes to a particular task. What I do care about is can they do said task and how well.


I know some gender differences are purely artificial and imposed by culture. For example, in the past women were not allowed to study or inherit their parents' property. But saying that the two genders are the same or equal so both men and women can fulfill the same social roles and work the same jobs is nonsense. How many women can you find working in the mines? In spite of all the feminist babble about gender being an arbitrary cultural thing, biology significantly determines our social life.


Anna
Anna Oct 17 '14

Quote from luz I am not sure what you envision that the day-to-day duties of a CEO are: moving boulders and shredding the skin of business partners maybe?


Well... that was just dumb. You know aggression is not necessarily about punching someone in the face. Daily competition often requires a high level of aggression, even if it's highly sublimated. I'm not an expert on biology, neither are you, but have you ever heard about testosterone?


Quote from luz
And if you're replying to my comments for the trill of an online drama: Wow! You totally win - I'm speechless of your opinion. I am looking for forward to being wowed in future discussions.

xD

Don't worry. This is my last post to you. I could go on for ages and pages debating the silly nonsense you posted in reply to me and also others but it would be a fucking waste of time as you're incapable of standing your ground in any discussion.
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JasinElric
JasinElric Oct 18 '14

luz:  

I would love to hear your views on who the oppressors are for the "privileged" among us.  The far-left appear to be the obvious answer, as everyone shouting of privilege come from one extreme left organization or another.  Such organizations are also experts at victim mentality rhetoric.  Perhaps it is a loaded question, but it also appears as you may be trying to dodge mine.  Would me joining a far-right organization be the proper course of action, as per your example?  I'm thinking you'd answer "no" as it is completely counter to your personal agenda.  I'd expect something of a classic "we're not the bad guys" argument, though at this point I can't make any assumptions without further clarification from you. 


 As far as the O9A go, wasn't that a made-up, imaginary organization?  I've read some of their/his literature, and do agree with some, but certainly not all, or even most of what they/he has to say.  It does sound like a repackaging theism with pseudo-scientific babble, and replacement of philosophy with a political manifesto.  My disagreements with O9A are a long list, perhaps some other time, but that's my basic gist.  I do wonder, however, if your assumption about my political view is Satanism's new way of screaming "Nazi!" at those with a differing stance.  

The Forum post is edited by JasinElric Oct 18 '14
Anna
Anna Oct 18 '14

Quote from luz i just picked on O9A because when I first became active on a Satanic online forum, I was supper excited about telling people about me and I shared a link to my YouTube channel (some music on it only). So some O9A troll started leaving disturbing comments there (think as in - we're coming to ill you). I'm pretty upset that I had to lock my YouTube comments because of that dude. So - however iamginary the otganization is, I feel pretty annoyed by its imaginary members. (So I picked on O9A for personal reasons and not for some imaginary Nazi agenda that they may have).



So someone tried to kill poor Luz on YouTube, lol. And how do you know that troll had anything to do with the ONA? He/she simply wanted to have some fun at your cost and finally won, because you got all chickenshit and disabled the comments.
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